Hmmm How Much Exercise Did “They” Say Was Needed?

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Written By Lynn Dorman, Ph.D.  |  Healthier  |  0 Comments

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It’s THAT time of the year — again [sigh]

My inbox and social media feeds are filled with mail/posts selling me on the advantages of:

  • planners
  • courses about planning
  • products on how to use AI to make my year “better” “great” “etc.”
  • health-related info on starting the year off the “right” way
  • making resolutions [personal and business]
  • and more…

Except for the AI which is sort of new this year — the posting and the emails are the same every December and January.

But last year some of it started back earlier in the Fall because everyone knows:

“I have to get your attention about January 2024 in the middle of the summer or early fall or else you won't buy my product.”

It’s fine if you do the above - and even better if making resolutions works for you…

I no longer make them.

I used to.

I’d read a lot of that “how to succeed” stuff, that “guru” stuff, that “my friends say this works” stuff, and would make a list of what I would accomplish in the upcoming year….

Then at some point during the year, I’d look at my resolution list and laugh [or cry] as so little of it ever got done! Or done with any degree of consistency.

So I stopped making New Year resolutions. It seemed to not be good for my mental health OR my productivity. My brain doesn't like lists!!

I've discovered that I am not alone. Many, if not most, people did not follow theirs either.

Especially these:

"I am going to exercise every day” resolution or “I am going to lose X pounds this year” or “I am going to lose 5 pounds a month.”


And work-related resolutions?

The “I will write a post a day,” or “I will write a book before Summer,” or I will do X by Y time frame.

Ditto the very popular “I will be making $XXX a month by the end of March or April” type of resolution.

These resolutions generally do not work.

Why? We tend to set impossible resolutions or standards for ourselves. They are often more wishful thinking than actual planned-out behaviors. Not sticking to these resolutions may make us feel like failures so early in the new year, and yes, the ad people play into this guilt.

Watch ads early in the year and note those aimed at making us feel guilt and shame over NOT keeping resolutions. They may not be direct, but they are aimed at guilt making!!

my insteads 

With two major professional degrees and several accolades, I know I am not a failure.

I actually CAN and DO accomplish things - but I have ceased the resolution-type thinking and adopted a more casual approach to my life. It took some hard work on my part to re-think the business/life model that keeps telling us we “need” to make a yearly, monthly, daily plan… or else!


I choose "or else"


Opting for the “or else” works for me! 

Every choice can be the “correct way!"


I let my mind wander!

I now enjoy late December/early January as we get an added minutes of daylight every afternoon. 

I use this light/dark scenario to reflect, have fun, and think about my work - but not make any of this into resolutions,
to-do lists, or anything tightly scheduled!


I do a non-journal kind of journaling

I call it my mental meandering but it’s more like a brain dump. This is one activity I do most every day but without the “I must do it” kind of thinking, so I often don't do this. And that’s okay!

Apple has made this easier for me as they released a journal app and I have started using that app - but still not every day - I figure a few days a week [maybe] works for me.

walking

Exercise "guidelines" suggest we get at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week. I know how hard it is to do this, and I exercise regularly, so it came as no surprise to read this:

Researchers say current exercise guidelines are unrealistic and argue that doctors should sometimes advise small increases in activity instead.

Have you tried to do your 10,000 steps a day? Every day? And also work? And take of people? Take care of pets? Get other things done? Try it. I did and it was okay until it got to not be okay. And I did a lot of those steps walking the dog, so I was doing at least 2 things on my daily list.

Moderate exercise is that which increases your heart and breathing rates so that you notice the increase. Like fast walking, slow jogging or running, biking,  etc.  For about 2 1/2 hours over the week. Seems easy? Try it.....

​The article cited above goes on to suggest that just getting inactive people to move more would be great, even if it's only 10 minutes a day.

And a more recent article points out that too much jogging can be as bad as none at all! 

Scientists studied more than 1,000 healthy joggers and non-joggers over a 12-year period.
Those who jogged at a steady pace for less than two and a half hours a week were least likely to die in this time.
But those who ran more than four hours a week or did no exercise had the highest death rates.

Like most all things in life, there is no one-size-fits-all.  I get annoyed at the ads and the articles that suggest "everybody" can benefit from [pick your product.}

There Is no diet, no magic pill, or no magic amount of exercise, or a specific kind of exercise that can be good in the same way for everybody.

I'm definitely not saying don't exercise - because I am a great believer in exercise - but I am saying pay attention to you and your body and not all the alleged guidelines you read.

You, the smart readers of this blog, know that you have to find your own answer. 

You have to find what works for you!!

Thoughts?
Comments?
Thank you!

Do you make resolutions? Do they work for you? Or if not - what do you do - if anything? Please comment below and thank you for reading.  

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