It’s Organize Your Home Day! [LOL]

what I do instead

Written By Lynn Dorman, Ph.D.  |  Musings  |  2 Comments

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It’s THAT time of the year — again [sigh]

My inbox and social media feeds are filled with mail/posts selling me on the advantages of:

  • planners
  • courses about planning
  • products on how to use AI to make my year “better” “great” “etc.”
  • health-related info on starting the year off the “right” way
  • making resolutions [personal and business]
  • and more…

Except for the AI which is sort of new this year — the posting and the emails are the same every December and January.

But last year some of it started back earlier in the Fall because everyone knows:

“I have to get your attention about January 2024 in the middle of the summer or early fall or else you won't buy my product.”

It’s fine if you do the above - and even better if making resolutions works for you…

I no longer make them.

I used to.

I’d read a lot of that “how to succeed” stuff, that “guru” stuff, that “my friends say this works” stuff, and would make a list of what I would accomplish in the upcoming year….

Then at some point during the year, I’d look at my resolution list and laugh [or cry] as so little of it ever got done! Or done with any degree of consistency.

So I stopped making New Year resolutions. It seemed to not be good for my mental health OR my productivity. My brain doesn't like lists!!

I've discovered that I am not alone. Many, if not most, people did not follow theirs either.

Especially these:

"I am going to exercise every day” resolution or “I am going to lose X pounds this year” or “I am going to lose 5 pounds a month.”

And work-related resolutions?

The “I will write a post a day,” or “I will write a book before Summer,” or I will do X by Y time frame.

Ditto the very popular “I will be making $XXX a month by the end of March or April” type of resolution.

These resolutions generally do not work.

Why? We tend to set impossible resolutions or standards for ourselves. They are often more wishful thinking than actual planned-out behaviors. Not sticking to these resolutions may make us feel like failures so early in the new year, and yes, the ad people play into this guilt.

Watch ads early in the year and note those aimed at making us feel guilt and shame over NOT keeping resolutions. They may not be direct, but they are aimed at guilt making!!

my insteads 

With two major professional degrees and several accolades, I know I am not a failure.

I actually CAN and DO accomplish things - but I have ceased the resolution-type thinking and adopted a more casual approach to my life. It took some hard work on my part to re-think the business/life model that keeps telling us we “need” to make a yearly, monthly, daily plan… or else!

I choose "or else"

Opting for the “or else” works for me! 

Every choice can be the “correct way!"

I let my mind wander!

I now enjoy late December/early January as we get an added minutes of daylight every afternoon. 

I use this light/dark scenario to reflect, have fun, and think about my work - but not make any of this into resolutions,
to-do lists, or anything tightly scheduled!

I do a non-journal kind of journaling

I call it my mental meandering but it’s more like a brain dump. This is one activity I do most every day but without the “I must do it” kind of thinking, so I often don't do this. And that’s okay!

Apple has made this easier for me as they released a journal app and I have started using that app - but still not every day - I figure a few days a week [maybe] works for me.

Apparently today and next Friday are Organize Your Home Day according to BlogEnergizer's calendar.

Heck it would take me more than the 2 days and the week in between to organize mine – if it were even possible.

I am the type of mind that can't follow a simple organizing system for more than a short time.  Just looking through my file systems, including the folders on my computer, will tell you that.   But with Spotlight on my Mac and a very good memory – I can usually find what I need.  And when I can't –  I can replace.

Luckily I am in a small house now so it's kind of hard to lose anything unless it falls in the river – but in past lives I lost hammers so often I owned 5 of them [yes I found them all after a while]

My kitchen is the nearest-to-organized spot in my house – well except for the closet with glasses, storage containers and non-perishable foods.  But that has doors that can be closed so no one knows and besides it's not really in the kitchen

So my hat's off to those of you who can love a day called Organize Your Home Day and make it work in your life.

Me? I'll just stick with buying hammers ;(

Comments?  Thanks.

Do you make resolutions? Do they work for you? Or if not - what do you do - if anything? Please comment below and thank you for reading.  

  • Hi Lynn, as a professional organiser all I can say is “whatever works for you”. Sounds like you are well and truly organized in your own special way – and that is all that matters! Besides, Home Depot will love you 🙂

    • Thank you – I know I must be organized in many ways as I have two needed-to-be-organized-degrees and worked in two intensive paper/filing professions. But it’s the day to day stuff that gets me 🙂

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