Gray Wolf

Tag: human interest

  • 50 Years Ago Today

    JFK50 years ago, I was in my 1st year of graduate school in Boston, Massachusetts.

    50 years ago, President Kennedy was assassinated.

    50 years is a long time but I still have one odd, yet powerful, memory of that day.

    It was a Friday and in the days before ATM machines so in order to have cash for the upcoming weekend, I needed to walk to my bank and get some. It was a Friday routine for me.

    I knew that Kennedy had been shot, and was dead.  That had a major impact on my psyche…on the psyche of all I was with that day – but I still needed cash.

    Walking to the bank – Shawmut Bank in Kenmore Square – was a surreal experience. I think I know what an out-of-body experience feels like after that day… Here I was, doing what was a mundane, but necessary task, and the President had been assassinated. I felt like like I was walking in some alternate time zone where life was ok…I wondered if the others walking or driving by me were aware of what happened as we all seemed so normal, doing normal activities.

    This surreal experience can be recalled easily on the anniversary of the assassination – but is stronger this year, as it falls on a Friday – and it is the 50 year anniversary.

    Sadly, little did I know that this was the beginning of a series of assassinations that rocked my days in Boston…..

     

  • Tova Goes To School

    Yellow Lab puppy

    Tova and I started the first of six weeks of doggy class the other day.

    We were the only ones in the class and that was nice for the start, but next week there will be other people and dogs which will be better.

    I have taken dog classes with other dogs but Tova had never been to one and I needed a refresher too.

    We had to wait until it wasn’t so hot out because hot is not to my liking. Turned out, it was not to her liking either.

    The instructor is a good trainer and Tova responded well. So well that there was an immediate major difference in her behavior at class and at home. She seems to know that we’re learning and working – and she loves to do her “work.” She IS a lab and labs are working dogs.

    And before the class began, we had been working at home where I say to her: “let’s go to work” and she goes into her “I know we’re going to do sit, down, and stay.” And I’ll get treats of course….for a while.

    Updates as we progress….

     

  • Waking Up To No Electricity

    power_lines

    No electricity?

    Uh oh!

     

    As I pondered an unknown time with no electricity – here are some thoughts I had

    Things to be grateful for

    • A French press for my coffee
    • Gas stove and hot water heater
    • Matches to ignite gas stove
    • Summer and DST
    • Good neighbors

    Things to remember [there is always the “next” time]

    • Grind sufficient coffee beans the night before
    • Fully charge computer and cell phone every night

    PS

    I don’t use a lot of electricity, but when it goes out, I get to think about all the things I have that require electricity.

    So I will be very thankful when the electricity comes back on…

    And remember that the estimated time for restoration is a moving target

    PPS – It finally came back and I am able to post this – phew

     

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  • 6 Down; 6 To Go

    6It is the 1st day of the last 6 months of the year.

     

    What have you gotten done?

    What will you do with the next 6 months?

     

    it is hot

     

    In North America we are into summer and for many of us it is stifling hot….

    But don’t let the weather determine your goals – summer is a good time to keep working on whatever you were working on…refine it, add to it, finish it. Sell it! Make money for your business!!

    If, like me, you are a daylight person, the added hours of sunshine mean added hours to get things done….

    Stay cool! Stay focused! 

    Are you more [or less] productive in the summer?

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  • Technology, Stress, and Backup Plans

    OY OY OY

    • My computer stopped working.
    • The hard drive crashed.
    • I have all my work on it.
    • I am totally stressed out.

    What do I do to survive all this stress?

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    We now live in a high-tech culture.

    Technology is part of our everyday lives.

     our worl is technology

    • We use computers.
    • We have Wi-Fi all over the place!
    • We have iPads and tablets.
    • We have iPhones and smart phones.

    Many of us work online, bank and pay bills online, communicate online, and generally love the technology available to us.

    That is until it does not work.

    ISPs stop working, or work so slowly that they are useless.

    Programs don’t do what we thought they should do.

    And then there is the:

    “OMG – my hard drive crashed!”

    Any of the above issues, especially the last one, can lead to stress – so we have to figure out how to cope with that stress – preferably planning for it ahead of time.

    Why? Because technology issues are a part of our lives.

    Having had many hard drives crash over the years, you’d think I’d have learned to back up but I never did. I only made copies of some of my writings.

    But the last time I bought a computer, I bought a Mac laptop. Laptops are more prone to issues because they can get dropped, they can get stolen and they can get things bumped into them, etc.

    Especially if you have pets.

    When I got the new computer, I actually bought a years worth of a backup plan called Crashplan. When you buy such a plan, it is with the hope that you never ever have to use it and see if it really works.

    So when my “OMG the hard drive crashed” happened, I was sort of stress-ready.

    Having read good things about Crashplan, a bulk of my stress was alleviated because I knew that all of what had been on my computer was somewhere up there in the “cloud.” [Fingers crossed.]

    yoga

     

    But a dead hard drive is still stressful. So to get more calmed down, I did some yoga and meditating. I also took my puppy on a few walks and talked to my son and a friend…. And vocalizing the stress helped.

    It all came down to this…I kept telling myself that there really was nothing else for me to do…the worst-case scenario was that I’d have to start all that work all over again.

    The ending?

    I picked up the computer and started the restore process.

    A few glitches and errors on my part and it was working – slowly [ISP issues] – but working.

    Then many [many, many] hours later, the message was on my screen that my restore was done.

    Everything was restored to where it had been…amazing technology!

    All in the clouds……cloud storage

    That I was tired for a few days after this was a signal that I had been more stressed than I thought….so more yoga, more puppy walks, and more relaxing in the sun was called for….

    Lessons learned…you need:

    • back up plans
    • yoga
    • healthy eating
    • great tech support
    • great customer service
    • patience

     

    Thoughts? Comments?

     

    Thank you…

     

     

     

  • Earth Day: It Should Be Everyday

     

    love mother earth every day

     

    Earth Day!!

    April 22nd!!

     

    Why is it not every day?

    Don’t get me wrong, I love that we have Earth Day.

    At least it reminds people one day a year that we ought to be taking care of the one and only planet that we live on.

    And I’m sure, if it were something we talked about most of the year then people go “oh yeah…can’t be bothered now, tell me later why we need to protect the earth.”

    Oops – some do talk about our struggling planet most of the year and they are called names, and mocked, by people who just don’t believe that the planet might be in trouble.

    I am reminded of the saying “take care of your body it’s the only one you have.”

    Well – ditto planet Earth – until we can live on other planets,

    it IS the only one we have!!

     earth flowers

    Comments? Thoughts? Thank you.