Motivation: lost and found

For a few days now, I’ve been trying to get myself to sit and write a post – knowing that that never works to motivate me….

The writing motivation was elsewhere, which is good because it’s those other places that I have been working on this year and plugging away at posting on my blog is something I tend to only do when I sign up for this challenge – and even then I sometimes let the whole challenge month go by without writing.

This time around I’ve written more than my usual amount because I’ve been willing to sit here and write about why I don’t feel like writing and decide that’s one of the books I’m working on – how to motivate yourself when you don’t feel like writing… Of course that book doesn’t really get done except in spirits because it’s about the issue of not writing

But probably to distract myself from thinking about why I’m not writing anything, I got motivated to think about psychology. It’s my field. I’ve published several textbooks – I’ve written a lot of articles about it, and I have taught many courses on different aspects of psychology and especially about lifespan development – so I decided to start thinking about writing more psychology books and I spent hours working on that.

It felt good – but that’s not posting here – yet both of those happenings felt OK.

Like in the image at the top, all those writing choices are the correct choices!!

However I look at it it’s a win-win for me!! It got me sitting and writing this, which will keep me going for a bit later today – and again during the week.

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6 responses to “Motivation: lost and found”

  1. Doug Avatar

    Have you heard of the practice called “Morning Pages”?
    It is a discipline that could become a habit.
    Start each day by writing down the miscellaneous thoughts that drift through your mind first thing in the morning.
    Do it before you start anything else in the day.
    It is designed to stimulate creativity.
    The pages are not intended to anything more than that. They can be destroyed immediately of filed to watch the pile grow.
    There is no set amount to be written, just stop when you are finished and begin your day.
    Have you though about giving people on your blog the first draft of the thoughts you are putting into your book?

    1. Lynn Dorman, Ph.D. Avatar

      Tried that for years I used to call it my mental morning musings or something and then it began to feel like a chore so I stopped it but thank you for reminding me. It worked when it worked and I should probably try it again and yeah, I have thought about offering up the book or draft chapters as they come along to the people in this challenge so they can read it and comment on it

  2. Lily Leung Avatar

    I am often this way, not motivated. And I write about it. It works.

    1. Lynn Dorman, Ph.D. Avatar

      Spent so much time letting the not motivated rule the day that I’m enjoying learning that again if I just started something even if it’s writing about what I don’t feel like doing helps thank you for validating that

  3. Kebba Buckley Button Avatar

    Lynn, as long as you’re writing, you’re golden! Just keep the notes and drafts separated by topic, and you can always turn them into a larger work later. Good for you!

    1. Lynn Dorman, Ph.D. Avatar

      I am laughing as I read this. Thank you for your comment and for thinking I’m that kind of organized. I spent a lot of time the other day just trying to find some of those notes because I forgot what I called them when I stuffed them in some folder on my computer. I am totally lacking in that kind of organizational skill, but I know how to find things. I’m a good researcher. It just takes a longer time when I have to think about what I might’ve called it… I can say is thankfully computers have better search engines than I have dealt with my pre-computer life. But I do need a new computer – that’s part of the issue

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