{"id":1210,"date":"2012-07-29T18:25:57","date_gmt":"2012-07-30T01:25:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/?p=1210"},"modified":"2012-07-29T18:25:57","modified_gmt":"2012-07-30T01:25:57","slug":"are-you-a-competitive-parent-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/are-you-a-competitive-parent-part-3","title":{"rendered":"Are You A Competitive Parent? Part 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"left\" alt=\"little league\" border=\"3\" height=\"212\" src=\"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-content\/uploads\/little-league.jpg\" width=\"116\" \/>In this series, there has been a post about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/are-you-a-competitive-parent-part-1 \">competing in education<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/are-you-a-competitive-parent-part-2  \">competing in toilet training and weaning. <\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">This post is about competing in sports.<\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">No &#8211; not as in the kids competing as they play &#8211;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">it&#39;s about the parent&#39;s competing with each other as to whose kid is good, better, best. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"right\" alt=\"umpire-separating-parents\" border=\"2\" height=\"126\" src=\"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-content\/uploads\/umpire-parents.jpg\" width=\"148\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">We have all read the tales of parents fighting with each <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">other at Little League games, fighting with the umpir<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">es<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"> or screaming at the kids&#8230;their kids and the other kids.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Ditto a<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"left\" alt=\"soccer\" border=\"2\" height=\"181\" src=\"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-content\/uploads\/soccer.jpg\" width=\"148\" \/><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">t soccer games. The kids are there<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"> to have fun and learn &quot;sportsmanship&quot; but the parents are teaching a far different lesson.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">And cheerleading? I do recall news about a mother hiring a hit-man to kill her daughter&#39;s rival!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"middle\" alt=\"\" border=\"5\" height=\"144\" src=\"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-content\/uploads\/anger.PNG\" width=\"144\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">So why are the parents competing with each other? Why not let the kids have fun and enjoy the sport?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Are the parents that ego involved in their kid&#39;s sports <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">because they see it as a ticket-to-wealth or a ticket-to-college?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Or is it to give a boost to what they consider their great parenting skills? And show that off to everyone else?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Next up: parties<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"color: red;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Thoughts? Comments? Additionall areas of competition? Thank you for your input&#8230;.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this series, there has been a post about competing in education, and competing in toilet training and weaning. This post is about competing in sports. No &#8211; not as in the kids competing as they play &#8211; it&#39;s about the parent&#39;s competing with each other as to whose kid is good, better, best. &nbsp; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[494],"tags":[519,532,307,506,385,517,480,360,518],"class_list":["post-1210","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parenting-2","tag-cheerleading","tag-child-development","tag-child-rearing","tag-competition","tag-human-interest","tag-little-league","tag-parenting","tag-parents","tag-soccer","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1210"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1210\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.graywolfproductions.com\/parenting201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}